Whitney Heuston has clearly struck it lucky in the man department again. Her latest alleged lover - a 27-year-old singer called Ray J (most famed for starring in that sex tape with Kim Kardashian) - was quick to defend the 44-year-old diva when it transpired Bobby Brown was to reveal all in his book. Even though Ray J has openly admitted to loving Whitney, the pair have never confirmed themselves as a couple - despite rumours they were dating before Whitney and Bobby's official split. And Ray J's lyrics don't exactly do much to dispute that claim. A track from his album 'All I Feel' (just released in America this week. I'm sure this story coming to light is just a freak coincidence) contains the lines: "Is that your wife, is that your shorty, well I'm her boyfriend... I think the problem is you don't beat it right... Making love is cool, just pull her hair sometimes." Nice, way to defend you lady. And thanks for that, I've learned something new about Whitney AND Kim Kardashian. As for Bobby, he's not bovvered, writing in this book: "Their relationship doesn't bother me. She's open to see whoever she wants to see, just like I can see who I want to see. I know the age difference between her and the little guy (not patronising at all there, Bobby) is 20 years (making Whitney closer to 47...), but to each his own. The only concern I had was how our daughter felt about the age difference. As long as she's cool with it, it's fine by me." I wonder if she'll be cool about her ma invariably appearing in a sex tape sometime soon. Oh, did I forget to mention? Ray J is also a "director of porn" for Vivid Entertainment. He landed the gig after he successfully marketed his tape with Kardashian. Quite the catch.