There's openly discussing your marriage, and then there's discussing your open marriage. Will Smith, presumably with Jada's permission, dropped this during the week: "Our perspective is, you don't avoid what's natural and you're going to be attracted to people. And if it came down to it, then one would say to the other: 'Look, I need to have sex with somebody. Now, I'm not going to if you don't approve of it'. In our marriage vows, we didn't say 'forsaking all others'. We said 'you will never hear I did something afterwards'. Because if that happens the relationship is destroyed."
Yeeaah, I reckon a relationship is pretty much destroyed when you feel the need to say "Honey, I need to have sex with somebody other than you." But, then again, I live in a fantasy land *twirls around office*. And, hey, if it works for a certain Irish rock star...
